Welcome Life ! :)

A warm welcome to all the folks out there. πŸ™‚ I believe you all must be doing incredibly well in your life. Responses from my last column were so heart-warming that it motivated me to write again. Thank-you all for such immense love. I’m flattered. πŸ˜€

Recalling incidents from my past experiences, I would like to share one of them. I went for a placement drive in my conservatory. This company was basically put up in Sweden, at the same time branches tossed all over the world. The day started with an online exam and I performed it with utmost solitude. I wasn’t expecting anything. It was then followed by a company presentation which was very explanatory and appealing. Thinking about the long run, I thought venturing into this company will be quite good if anytime I planned to go for it. πŸ™‚ While coming back home, my friend notified me with a superb news that I’ve cleared the online exam and can appear for the further rounds of selection the other day. I was ecstatic, felt like I’m on top of the world. I celebrated that day with colossal happiness and love. That day ended on a brilliant note. πŸ˜€ Yayyyy! πŸ˜€

The next day I went for the further rounds of selection. I wasn’t nervous as people usually are. It started with a group discussion. We were 15 people in one group and the GD lasted for 10-12 minutes. Interestingly, I cleared that as well. It was then followed by a technical interview. I knew I was under-prepared for the technical part and again wasn’t expecting anything. I went for the interview, answered questions which I knew and for those questions whose answers I didn’t know, I happily confessed that I couldn’t recall them. It was a so-so interview as I know I hadn’t given my best. Still I wasn’t sad ’cause I know and I was told that this interview is just a ‘interview’, it wouldn’t and can never judge my potential. The results were declared and guess what, I was not selected. :O Thoughts started flooding my mind, though I couldn’t control them, I was happy. I was happy by the fact that this thing couldn’t bother me. Still in the back of my mind, a mere feeling was there that I couldn’t get through it. 😦

But then again, I was enlightened by the fact that this is not the end of the world. This is not where my progress will stop, ’cause progress never stops. Any failure is not the end, it’s just the beginning of something phenomenal in life. πŸ™‚ There are two reasons by which a person never accomplishes his desires, the first could be that he never feels the passion to achieve them. He’s negative. The thoughts running inside his mind are not positive enough to lead him to his desire. The second could be that he’s chasing something he doesn’t desire at all. He’s thinking about those things which are not as important as his desire. And hence, the person fails to achieve those. :/

The failure or rather I should say defeat which I faced enlightened me with the fact that I was running behind something which I never wanted. So i shouldn’t be sad of not achieving it. In fact I should be happy that it it didn’t materialize. If it had, I would have Β considered it and paid attention to it and sidelined my original desire which ultimately will cost my happiness. And frankly speaking, I can handle anything but cannot compromise with my happiness. πŸ™‚


But this incident conveyed one fact that opportunities in life never end. It always shows up in one way or another. One should be positive and happy as these things should never take you away from your eternal being. You came forth in this world to live, express, enjoy, be happy and spread happiness. Ups and downs are a part of life. Change is a part of growing. Never ever be sad about those trivial things. You are a conqueror. You can achieve anything you desire. You’re not a mediocre creature. You’re above all. You are happiness. You’re the cause your parents are happy. And you will make it. You will reach at the top. You are a significant ball of energy. You’re a true spirit. You’re a performer. πŸ™‚


I hope I could light up a little motivation in your life through my incident. If yes, then start living. Start being happy. Don’t care what others think of you. What you think of yourself is more important. And think only thoughts of happiness. ‘Cause only happiness will make you feel alive. πŸ™‚

Signing off with an influencing one, : When you focus on problems, You’ll have more problems. When you focus on possibilities, you’ll have more opportunities. πŸ™‚

Be love. Be kind. Be happy. πŸ˜‰


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